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The Stress Relieving Power of Compassion

CompassionI love Julia Cameron’s definition of compassion, it’s when “we begin to treat ourselves more gently. Feeling less desperate, we are less harsh with ourselves and with others.”

It follows that the kinder we are to ourselves, the kinder we are to other people, our circle of kindness widens. We are constantly bombarded with ideas and ”research results” on how we must think and behave. A lot of us try to “work on ourselves” under this pressure, unfortunately, as a result this makes us more critical of ourselves and others.

We need to feed a loving voice in ourselves: compassionate, aware, kind and patient. As we start being nicer to ourselves, more accepting of our shortcomings and exercising patience, this feeling of openness and understanding ripples out to the world around us. After all, compassion is not only heroic deeds, but small unseen and often unthanked kindnesses done by any one of us, those apparently small effects do resonate out in the world.

10 healthy reasons to practice compassion:

  1. It makes us feel good (e.g., helping someone in need) it activates the pleasure circuits in our brain.
  2. It makes us less prone to heart disease.
  3. It lowers stress hormones.
  4. Brain scans done during loving-kindness meditation show that the mind wanders less and as a result we feel happier.
  5. It makes us more caring parents.
  6. It makes us better partners.
  7. It makes us better friends.
  8. Employees who are treated with kindness and consideration at work see their workplace, fellow employees and the organization itself in a better light.
  9. Being kind to one person makes us less angry with another, the feeling expands.
  10. Holding back on feelings of compassion hurts our self-esteem and undermines our morality.

Kuan Yin is known as the Goddess of Infinite Compassion and Mercy, she is like the Mother Mary of the East. Her name in Chinese means “the one who hears the cries of the world.” She is often depicted holding a vase which is pouring the nectar of wisdom and compassion onto the world.

I’ll leave you with a simple, sweet meditation on compassion:

Set a timer for 20 mins. Sit in a comfortable position that you can hold for that long (it can even be lying down or on a sofa). Close your eyes gently and take 5 slow deep breaths to quiet your mind. Focus on your breathing, it’s happening in the now, giving your mind something to work with. Relax and enjoy this feeling of peace.

With your eyes closed visualize Kuan Yin, her kindness and compassion flowing down onto the world, or visualize any person that represents love and compassion in your eyes.

Repeat over and over and over:

“May all beings everywhere be happy and free from suffering.”

Visualize the words.

When your mind wanders, because it will, notice it, and gently draw your attention back to your repetition.

To end your meditation:

Bring your hands together to your forehead, for clarity of thought.

Bring your palms together to your mouth, for clarity of speech.

Bring your palms together to your heart, for clarity of action.

Finish with:

“Let my light shine through all the things that I am thinking, saying and doing.”

And now, connected with this wonderful feeling, take it out into the world with you!

As the Dalai Lama once said “Love and compassion are necessities. They are not luxuries. Without them, humanity cannot survive.”

“Avalokiteshvara.” Encyclopaedia Britannica. Encyclopaedia Britannica, Inc. n.d. Web. 29 May 2017.

Cameron, Julia. the Artist’s Way. New York: Tarcher Putnam.1992. Print.

Hamilton, Ally. Yoga Instructor. Yogis Anonymous. 17 Dec. 2012.

“What is Compassion?,” Greater Good Science Center: University of California, Berkeley. n.d. Web. 29 May 2017.

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About the author 

Amy Leigh Mercree

Amy Leigh Mercree is a medical intuitive and bestselling author of eighteen books and card decks, including her newest Blissful Baths: 40 Rituals for Self-Care and Relaxation and Aura Alchemy: Learn to Sense Energy Fields, Interpret the Color Spectrum and Manifest Success.

Mercree instructs internationally sharing Meet Your Goddess Guides, Ancestral and Karmic Shamanism, and Atomic Healing Method Medical Intuitive Certification. She also offers medical intuitive and healing home sessions as well as small group mediumship readings.

Mercree has been featured in Glamour Magazine, Women’s Health, Inc. Magazine, Shape, The Huffington Post, Your Tango, Soul and Spirit Magazine, Mind Body Green, CBS, NBC, Hello Giggles, Reader’s Digest, The Oprah Magazine, Forbes, ABC, First for Women, Country Living, CW, FOX, Bustle, Well+Good, Refinery 29, Hello Glow, She Knows, Thrive Global, Spartan, Poosh, Parade Magazine, Oprah Daily, and many more.

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