Relationships Department

Transforming Your Relationship: Creating a Vision Plan for Your Relationship

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As I shared in part one of my ongoing Transforming Your Relationship column series, How to Create Your Unshakable Love & Unleashed Passion in 8 Simple Steps, in each issue I will be guiding you deeper into each of the 8 transformational steps of my Relationship Transformation System® and give you a tool or strategy to implement to experience a shift in your relationships that day!  In this issue, we are covering Step One: Seeing. STEP ONE:  Seeing. Seeing is all about creating a vision for your relationship. It’s a foreign concept for most of us. We fully accept that we need goals and a vision for our business, health, wealth and so many other areas of our lives…but our relationship? Huh? As Zig Ziglar once said, “You can’t hit a … [Read Article and Leave a Comment...]

7 Empowering Ways to Value Yourself in Your Relationships


I was 24 years old when I fell deeply and intensely in love. I thought I would spend my entire life with this person. I trusted my choice in heart, body and soul. I was 29 when we married and I felt the joining of the two of us in my roots. While that deep, undeniable intense love brought magic and passion into my life, when we got divorced, I was left shattered. Ending our marriage was … [Read Article and Leave a Comment...]

How to Create Your Unshakable Love & Unleashed Passion in 8 Simple Steps

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My husband Paul and I recently celebrated our 20th anniversary of being together. When I see the relationship that we have today, it’s hard to believe that 16 years ago, he was walking out the door. We created this relationship, it didn’t start out this way. And we can show you how to create yours too! Our mission is to empower everyone with the Relationship Education that no one ever taught you. … [Read Article and Leave a Comment...]

5 Signs that You’re Settling for Less in Life

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My husband and I have someone close to us that is struggling in a relationship. I can see it so clearly, when you’re outside of the chaos, you can see that she’s settling for less than she deserves, and this is creating a ripple effect in so many areas of her life, including her kids. This whole situation made me reflect and it’s true that sometimes we face difficulties in life that create big … [Read Article and Leave a Comment...]

Giving Up Control Allows Kids to Develop Good Habits

Like so many people, I wanted to be the “perfect parent.” With that goal in mind, I jumped in whenever I perceived there to be a problem that my son wasn’t addressing. I thought I should try to “help” him fix the situation. Honestly, I’m not sure how either of us survived his childhood. One area of contention was my son’s eating habits. I restricted sweets in the house since they were a big … [Read Article and Leave a Comment...]

What Being a Mom of Boys Has Taught Me About Life

I am the proud mom of two boys. While society considers me to be their role model, I knew the moment I laid eyes on both of my sons, they are actually my greatest teachers. They show me how life is truly meant to be enjoyed. Children are amazing instructors for showing us what pure joy looks like. They remind us how simple it all can be. Being in this place of raising boys is an adventure each … [Read Article and Leave a Comment...]

Transforming Your Relationship: The Power of Living Authentically

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Our journey is very purposeful. From birth on, we are always learning the lessons. The universe is always guiding us, giving us opportunities to grow and teaching us everything we will need to one day live out our purpose, and heed our calling. All the pain, the challenges, the breakdowns…they were all to teach us our life lessons and prepare us to be ready for the purpose and calling we are here … [Read Article and Leave a Comment...]

5 Ways to Align Your Energy and Attract Your Prince Charming

When I think of love and romance, I have visions of being cherished, valued and pampered by a wonderful man who respects me and the relationship we’re building together.  A man who loves me for my brains and my heart just as much as he desires my body.  A man whom I trust to hold my heart in his hands with care.  A man who is my modern day “Prince Charming”.   I hope, dream and pray for this to be … [Read Article and Leave a Comment...]

5 Reasons Why You Need Boundaries in Your Relationships and Life

Have you been feeling drained, tired, stressed out, and exhausted? Do you feel under appreciated, unseen, and unsupported? If so, it may be that you need to learn how to set some boundaries in your life and relationships.So why exactly do you need boundaries in your relationships and life? Here are 5 reasons:#1 – They give you a sense of selfWhen we don’t have boundaries in our lives it implies … [Read Article and Leave a Comment...]

Transforming Your Relationship: Keeping Your Lamp Filled

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“Women are like oil lamps, when the oil runs dry, you can’t get fire!” - Unknown Have you ever wondered what the difference is between pleasure and happiness? Those words are used interchangeably a lot of the time, but they are actually very different. Do you know what the difference is? About eight years ago, one of my beloved mentors, Keith Cunningham taught me that “pleasure is momentary and … [Read Article and Leave a Comment...]

Transforming Your Relationship: The Space Within the Moment (TM)

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"Extraordinary relationships are not built in the good times, they are built during the tough times." ~ Stacey Martino Have you ever had this experience? You are at your worst, lashing out, feeling ugly and not deserving when suddenly in that moment someone shows you KINDNESS in return? It’s rare. If you are fortunate enough to have had this experience….what happened next? What did you … [Read Article and Leave a Comment...]