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Transforming Your Relationship: How to Forgive and Start Anew in Your Relationship

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If you’ve been following along in this 6-part Transforming Your Relationship blog series covering our 8-Step Relationship Transformation System, at this point, you’ve created a vision for your relationship, you’ve had a perspective shift so you actually SEE the dynamics in your relationship differently than you have before,  you’ve used tools and strategies that work to shift yourself and create a change with your partner, you learned how to become a team and create a rock-solid relationship –where nothing and nobody and come between you, and today I’m going to share Step 5, which is “Start Anew”. Starting Anew is about wiping the slate clean, releasing all hurts, betrayals, pain, and things not yet forgiven.  By definition, when there are … [Read Article and Leave a Comment...]

Enlightened Parenting: Act Outrageous Sometimes

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Once while I was researching a parenting magazine article I came across a suggestion to surprise your kids by jumping into the tub (fully clothed) while giving them a bath. “Do you really think parents do this?” my editor asked when I told her what I’d found. “I imagine not many,” I replied chuckling. “But, really, what stops us?” she asked with a twinkle in her eye.  The next time I spoke with … [Read Article and Leave a Comment...]

Enlightened Parenting: Create Community

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My kids and I were doing puzzles together on the patio floor when it dawned on me: I was lonely. They were joyous companions, but I needed more (and likely so did they). My closest friend had moved far away, and like most of us in the suburbs, I barely knew my neighbors. Our family life was filled with play, work, chores, activities, and love, but we were missing a sense of belonging to a larger … [Read Article and Leave a Comment...]

Enlightened Parenting: Make Silence Truly Golden

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“Can I please have some quiet in this house!” my dad would occasionally shout when his three shrieking daughters got the best of him. Since he was usually mild mannered, my sisters and I would take pity. We’d close our bedroom door or race to the backyard to continue our hot, gossipy conversation, allowing poor dad to have the quiet he desired.   When I reflect on those times, what strikes me … [Read Article and Leave a Comment...]

3 Questions That Will Help You to Redefine Your Divorce!

I have spent the past month doing research and interviewing women, collecting data for an online course I am producing. I am so grateful to all the women that shared the circumstances of their divorces. I was so touched by their stories. I know their pain and the overwhelming feeling of being devastated. Most of them had experienced a heart-breaking betrayal or abusive treatment. Each one started … [Read Article and Leave a Comment...]

In a Bad Relationship? Ask Your Heart What to Do

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Why do women stay in bad relationships? There is a very simple answer to this. The fear of the unknown in the future is more overwhelming than the pain you are experiencing in the present moment. When something is unpredictable it can cause quite a bit of anxiety. You are creatures of habit. Consistency can feel like a snuggly blanket when we are cold. Knowing what you can expect feels like a … [Read Article and Leave a Comment...]

Transforming Your Relationship: Why Your Man Doesn’t Offer to Help You!

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As I shared in part one of my ongoing Transforming Your Relationship column series, How to Create Your Unshakable Love & Unleashed Passion in 8 Simple Steps, in each issue I will be guiding you deeper into each of the 8 transformational steps of my Relationship Transformation System® and give you a tool or strategy to implement to experience a shift in your relationships that day!  In this … [Read Article and Leave a Comment...]

Shift Your Perspective to Transform Your Relationship

Transform, Relationship

As I shared in part one of my ongoing Transforming Your Relationship column series, How to Create Your Unshakable Love & Unleashed Passion in 8 Simple Steps, in each issue I will be guiding you deeper into each of the 8 transformational steps of my Relationship Transformation System® and give you a tool or strategy to implement to experience a shift in your relationships that day!  In this … [Read Article and Leave a Comment...]

Transforming Your Relationship: Creating a Vision Plan for Your Relationship

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As I shared in part one of my ongoing Transforming Your Relationship column series, How to Create Your Unshakable Love & Unleashed Passion in 8 Simple Steps, in each issue I will be guiding you deeper into each of the 8 transformational steps of my Relationship Transformation System® and give you a tool or strategy to implement to experience a shift in your relationships that day!  In this … [Read Article and Leave a Comment...]

7 Empowering Ways to Value Yourself in Your Relationships

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I was 24 years old when I fell deeply and intensely in love. I thought I would spend my entire life with this person. I trusted my choice in heart, body and soul. I was 29 when we married and I felt the joining of the two of us in my roots. While that deep, undeniable intense love brought magic and passion into my life, when we got divorced, I was left shattered. Ending our marriage was … [Read Article and Leave a Comment...]

How to Create Your Unshakable Love & Unleashed Passion in 8 Simple Steps

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My husband Paul and I recently celebrated our 20th anniversary of being together. When I see the relationship that we have today, it’s hard to believe that 16 years ago, he was walking out the door. We created this relationship, it didn’t start out this way. And we can show you how to create yours too! Our mission is to empower everyone with the Relationship Education that no one ever taught you. … [Read Article and Leave a Comment...]