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Ditch the Fear and Choose Love!

Ditch the Fear and Choose Love! by Debra Oakland | #AspireMag

“Life goes on, seasons change, the world continues on its timeless journey. Our souls continues to experience the “human experience” with all its ups and downs. How we choose to experience it – our choice. Two ways forward. Love or Fear. Let LOVE lead the way and you will find true peace and joy.” – Debra Oakland

Feeling fearless & courageous is something that takes inner work at a deep level. It takes courage to work on and shift our varying levels of fear. Breaking down the cause and effect at each level requires awareness, introspection, curiosity and the wisdom to trust our all knowing source of Good/God/Goddess, or whatever name our ‘comfort level’ accepts as the Divine Source of our knowing.

I don’t know about you, but I am tired of wasting my time in the company of fear. It’s not a good companion, carries low vibrational frequencies, has bad manners, whines and complains at every turn, trying to persuade me to believe lies that I know at the core of my being are false. Fear is quite the the seductress and a master at debating. Fear also knows that once Love gets a foothold and begins to grow and glow within, that it cannot survive in such a high frequency.

We are responsible for what we consciously choose to think, feel and act upon. Indulging the family of fear, associating with it’s negative relatives (anger, judgement, criticism, blame, gossip) drags us down a rabbit hole of negativity where we experience less than desirable outcomes. When you try to break away with the intention of spending time in the high vibration company of love, fear can raise it’s ugly head.

Segway here for a moment! Love gives us much better promptings than fear about what to avoid in life. We don’t need to engage in fear to keep ourselves safe. In fact, our fears can get us hurt. Why? Because when we engage in negativity, more of the same is drawn to us. Love in its infinite wisdom connects us to our inner source of power. When we direct this power with love and wisdom we are guided, prompted, protected and find ourselves in the right place at the right time.

The frequency of love is infinitely powerful. When we remain in its company, completely committed, it’s like living in a different world than the contrasting world of fear. The rules to each are the same. Your sub-conscious says YES to anything you feed it. You will manifest one or the other (+ or -) by engaging your thoughts, feelings, intentions and actions. Our consciousness cannot act on a mixed thought or feeling. Connect with your heart each day and bask in the love ‘in’ you!

Ask Yourself These 7 Important Questions:

– Am I willing to eliminate the facade of FEAR – False Evidence Appearing Real.

– Do I live my life in as high a vibrational frequency as possible, trusting that love, happiness, abundance, health and vitality are my divine right?

– Do I understand that I AM a Divine being capable of giving and receiving love, which means by default, I am worthy to give and receive love.

– Am I kind as I go about my day? Do I look into people’s eyes and smile, share hugs and allow love to flow in, through and out from me, empowering others with loving support?

– Am I harmless to self and others? Do I hold the space and vision for the highest and greatest good for all in Unity, Oneness and Grace?

– Do I ‘know’ that when love is the basis for every choice I make in my life, I can change the world, if only be degrees?

– Do I understand one of the most important Universal Laws and Principles of the Universe is this – whatever I focus my attention on I attract, whether positive or negative?

If you choose love you must choose what love embodies. Verbal and physical harmlessness. Seeing your light filling others and allowing their light to fill you – knowing this delicious energy is spiraling out into the Universe to benefit all life. Like I mentioned earlier, this takes work. When courage is required, consider letting your courageous intention be love. I do not know one person who has escaped going through life altering experiences, heartbreak and challenges. We grow stronger and wiser from ‘overcoming’ each obstacle with love, peace and grace, laying claim to our victorious life.

It takes deprogramming yourself and reprogramming yourself at an entire different level.

We are energy – everything is energy. Our higher source is a constant flow of love and perfection that moves through us effortlessly, like electricity. Engage with your Source of Love, Wisdom and Power daily in sacred space with gratitude for all that is here and all that is yet to come in to your life. The energy we as humans engage our thoughts and feelings in is like plastic that molds itself to our will. Are you feeling fearless and courageous? I AM! I hope you join me – invite love to be your constant companion. Life as you know it will change, I promise!

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About the author 

Debra Oakland

Debra Oakland is the Founder of Living in Courage – A Spiritual Oasis For Overcoming Life’s Biggest Challenges. In February of 2016 Debra’s debut book Change Your Movie, Change Your Life: 7 Reel Concepts for Courageous Change became an International Bestseller in Happiness and Personal Transformation.
Over a short 4 years Debra lost her 21 year old son, her baby girl in the 8th month of pregnancy and both brothers, and few years later, her father passed from prostate cancer. Debra began her life altering path, becoming a writer, courage advocate and joyful experiencer. Her story and passion to teach others how to live a life in courage, has been featured in major media outlets including online TV, radio, magazines, and best-selling books. Debra lives in Laguna Beach California with her husband and best-friend, Cody. Learn more at www.DebraOakland.com

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