Stacey Martino

About Stacey Martino

Stacey and her husband Paul empower individuals with the tools & strategies to transform their relationship …and you don’t need your partner to participate in the process, for you to get the results you want in your relationship!

Stacey and Paul are the founders of and creators of RelationshipU®.

Today, through their programs and live events, Stacey and Paul help thousands of people transform their love relationship! And as a happy bonus, you get to apply the same strategies to improve all your relationships.

Trained and certified by Tony Robbins, Stacey is a certified marriage educator and divorce preventionist. An international best-selling author, Stacey is a sought-after relationship expert, passionate and engaging speaker and media guest and is the Relationship Expert for Aspire Magazine.

A better relationship begins here. Download the Martino's free book "It Does Not Take Two to Tango: How One Partner Can Transform Any Relationship in 8 Simple Steps at

Shift Your Perspective to Transform Your Relationship

In part two of the Transforming Your Relationship column series, How to Create Your Unshakable Love & Unleashed Passion in 8 Simple Steps, Relationship Expert and #AspireMag Expert Columnist Stacey Martino shares step two: Shifting. In order to create transformation you must experience a shift in how you SEE things before you can implement the tools and strategies that really work!

Transforming Your Relationship: Creating a Vision Plan for Your Relationship

In part two of the Transforming Your Relationship column series, How to Create Your Unshakable Love & Unleashed Passion in 8 Simple Steps, Relationship Expert and #AspireMag Expert Columnist Stacey Martino shares step one: Seeing. Seeing is all about creating a vision plan for your relationship. It’s a foreign concept for most of us. We fully accept that we need goals and a vision for our business, health, wealth and so many other areas of our lives…but our relationship? Learn why it’s important and how to get started.

How to Create Your Unshakable Love & Unleashed Passion in 8 Simple Steps

Empowered with the tools that work in real-life, you can transform your relationships and live your life by design, instead of staying stuck in the life you have ended up in by default! Relationship Expert Stacey Martino shares an overview of the powerful 8 step Relationship Transformation System® thousands of people around the world have used to transform their relationships and to create their unshakable love and unleashed passion!

Transforming Your Relationship: The Power of Living Authentically

The universe is always guiding us, giving us opportunities to grow and teaching us everything we will need to one day live out our purpose, and heed our calling. Living your purpose is about being in alignment with your best and most authentic self, every day. All the pain, the challenges, and the breakdowns are here to teach you your life lessons and prepare you for the calling that is coming to you. Learn how the Emotional Guidance Scale by Abraham can help you live in alignment.

How to Be Grateful in a Crisis

Relationship Expert Stacey Martino shares how one of the most challenging times in her life led her to discover the power of gratitude. The self-proclaimed recovering control freak learned that in learning to let go of the need to control every aspect of her life, she was able to experience overwhelming gratitude for what was, and the more she did, the more blessings came. As Stacey shares, “When you live in gratitude and focus on cultivating yourself into the best version of yourself that you can be… is so positively amazing, it will bring you to tears! Tears of Gratitude!”

Transforming Your Relationship: Keeping Your Lamp Filled

When you increase your focus on long-lasting self-care, instead of momentary pleasures, you can keep your oil lamp lit longer and sustain your levels of passion and life-force longer. When you choose to create a life you love, you’ll discover you need a lot less momentary pleasures to get through the day. Relationship Expert Stacey Martino shares her top 9 secrets to creating a life by design so that your oil lamp is always filled from the inside out.

Transforming Your Relationship: The Space Within the Moment (TM)

When you react or respond to a trigger, in that split-second, there is something that Relationship Expert Stacey Martino refers to as “the SPACE within the moment”. In that moment you have the choice to respond with love or fear/anger. In this vulnerable post Stacey shares an intimate story from 20 years ago about a moment when she was not aligned with her best self and how Anthony Adragna’s response of love and kindness created a friendship that lasts today. Her story will have you asking yourself, “How am I choosing to respond in the space within the moment?”.

What Does It Take to Have a Rock Solid Relationship?

Sought-after Relationship Expert Stacey Martino shares, “You create a rock solid relationship in each moment, each decision, each action you take. Your actions are either creating a rock solid relationship or they are not. It is that simple.” Learn how you can create a rock solid relationship starting today.

Transforming Your Relationship: Are You in an Accidental Relationship? One Without a Vision?

You are creating the relationship you are living in. With every moment, every decision, every word, every action, every experience you participate in, you are creating your relationship every day. If you have never thought about it this way or done this work, the relationship you are in today is an Accidental Relationship. A relationship created moment by moment, primarily unconsciously and in reaction to the other person. It’s time to shift that.

Transforming Your Relationship: The Power of Joy

And a bad DAY? No, I don’t have bad days. I can honestly say that with 100% accuracy. I do not. I have bad MOMENTS, definitely! But I don’t stay stuck there for a whole freakin’ day! I have trained myself to have a negative moment, bring my state back up to a higher level, find the gift in the situation and learn from it, adjust and take more massive action In-Joy!
It’s a SKILL! And it can be learned!