Love Never Dies
by Sandy Alemian

  When my daughter, Talia died at 31 days old, I came to know that her soul’s journey continued…but in a different way…a non-physical way.  Having dialogued with the angels through my writing for the last 15 years, I knew it was possible to also dialogue with Talia in the same way.  So when I have connected with Talia’s energy through the years, it hasn’t been with the “baby” energy that she was, but more her soul energy, which is ageless and timeless.

Today marks what would have been Talia’s 12th birthday.  I am going to share an intimate part of my journal, as I sit this morning with my cup of tea, in the quiet of the day…to open the dialogue once again.  May your heart be blessed by this message.

6/24/06
Happy Birthday, Talia...So much has happened since your birth...it feels like a lifetime ago. You are my special angel.

Mommy, you are my special angel. You don't see how we use you to bring healing to so many--you think it's just what you do...but we nudge and guide people together.

Like matchmakers in heaven, Talia? For healing?

Sort of--most can find their way, and "bump" into the person they need to meet with.  Some need our help...so we whisper thoughts (like to Maureen Watson to inspire her to leave your card on the gravesite for the Atturio's) and hopefully, they’ll feel the nudge.

I love you, honey--thank you for blessing our lives...even still you touch people's lives for having been here, Talia. How did you do what you did…(meaning choosing to die young), knowing it was going to have us feel so much hurt at the beginning?

Mom, it's different here--you understand that there may be hurt that comes up...but we hold the energy of the love that it was all done in. It is not done to hurt anyone, but to help them to grow closer to love, to God...to help them to open their hearts to greater depths of compassion, forgiveness. That's the energy we hold for you. Not everyone can see that though...because they focus so much on the pain. That's why you're there, Mom, to help them open their hearts through their hurt to help them feel life (and peace, and love) again. This is not being done tothem...it is done for them. That statement alone speaks volumes...and hopefully will help them to ask..."Ok, if this is being done for me, how can I grow and heal and love again through this? Show me how, because I don't remember."

Thanks for being our messenger, Mom.  We love you so much.

My prayer for you, is that you allow every loss and transition in your life to help you to see more of the divine love within you.  And know that your loved ones in Spirit are but a breath away.  Take time to listen…and feel their love for you.  Love never dies.

Sandy Alemian is a sought-after Sprit Medium, Author, and Hypnotherapist. www.sandyalemian.com. This article first appeared in the print edition of aspire…Magazine.

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